Your heart’s a ghost town
Drive by baby, ain’t a soul to be found
Think there’s a hole in your chest
‘Cause the beating’s at rest
Let me give you a temporary fix
To start it up again
– Cafe <3
This was my second collaboration with The Butcher (check out the first one here).
I insisted that we make this a duet — he has one of my favourite voices ever. Thanks to today’s digitally-connected world, a guy from Germany and a girl from Canada can do just that :)
The first time I collaborated with someone on writing a song together was about a month and a half into my songwriting journey, just over a year ago.
It was such a nerve-wrecking idea that I would be adding my own creation to someone’s else’s creation in the hopes of making it bigger and better!
Well, I have to say that partnering up with Adam Boddy was just about the best introduction I could have asked for to the art of collaborating.
What makes an awesome collaboration partner? Someone who is a good communicator and responsive (in terms of timeliness and giving constructive feedback), as well as encouraging and honest. It also helped that we both just happened to be on the same page about a lot of things!
It doesn’t always come that easy though.
Some of you have heard our song “For Simone” before but I’m putting it up now as I’m currently into a new collaboration and needing to find some inspiration somewhere! Anywhere!
I guess it’s this way with anything in life — sometimes you have to work with people who maybe don’t do things the way you normally do. And you’re given a challenging task and could use all the encouragement and feedback that you can get … but, instead, there is silence on the other end. [Cue the cricket chirp].
Well, we can always learn something from the experience though and use it to better our half of being a collaborative partner. Always a silver lining to everything!
Have you ever had a challenging collaboration that you worked your way through?
– Cafe <3
In the dark corner of my life
I hide in my shell
Escaping the stabs of your blade
But they still penetrate
Keep cutting me down.
Try to run, you won’t let me run
Pull me back into hell
Drowning fast into emptiness
I can’t see myself
You’re cutting me down.
But hold on, it’s not over yet
I will rescue what’s left
This crumpled heap of dreams
Will be rebuilt, redeemed
The fearful whisper that was my voice
Will echo loudly through the noise.
I will rise out of the fire
You can burn down alone
I am free
I’m finally free.
– Cafe <3
This is an original song of mine that started out as a 1+1 (just voice and guitar).
Once “The Butcher” — my songwriting friend from Germany — stepped into the picture as a collaborator, it soared to another level that I could have never achieved on my own.